Well… What do you do? Where are you going?
Sure… Where do you see yourself in 5 years? What are you doing there? Who are you with?
These can certainly be big questions! But I think at some point they need to be considered; if not answered, even inconclusively.
There are many motivations driving the answers behind these questions. What do I want to do? What makes me happy? What do my parents want me to do? What will make me the most money? Bring me the most fame?
What does God want me to do?
From the Art of Manliness‘ post pondering What is a Vocation?
“The deepest vocational question is not “What ought I to do with my life?” It is the more elemental and demanding ‘Who am I? What is my nature?’” -Parker J. Palmer
The etymology of vocation versus career is most revealing. The word vocation comes from the Latin word “vocare” or “to call.” It denotes a voice summoning a person to a unique purpose. The word career derives from the Latin word for cart and the Middle French word for race track. It denotes quickly moving in a circle, never going anywhere.
Man was made to embrace his unique destiny, not soldier on as a hamster in a wheel.
As I ponder this myself, I think about what I feel like I am good at, what I enjoy, how I can serve, how I can bring joy to others.
I know that
- I love cooking and want to be able to invite others into my home to enjoy meals.
- I would like to have a wife and kids.
- I would like to find joy and contentment in the small things and show others how to do the same.
- I would like to help others who find themselves in difficult situations.
- I would like to give everyone the opportunities and the means to follow their dreams and passions. For this one I look to my parents, without whom I wouldn’t have half the experiences I have had, nor would I be where I am today doing what I’m doing, doing what I love.
- I want to teach or show others how to be.
This post hasn’t gone at all in the direction that I had originally planned… I was going to pose the question, “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?” And then try to answer it myself. But maybe I have no idea how to answer it or what my answer would be…
Maybe in 5 years I want to be doing all the things in my list…
I certainly don’t know where I will be. I don’t know who I will be there with. I don’t know what exactly I will be doing. But I know that I want to be doing those things. Of course, that’s all assuming that those are also things that God wants me to be doing… Boy, I sure hope so…
Ask yourself… where do you see yourself in 5 years?
::SAdamson









